- Crista Caruso
- Jul 27, 2018
- 2 min read
Texting is a quick, easy, and increasingly popular way to communicate. Texting a man can be fun but it can also feel a bit intimidating.
"What should I say? Should I be funny and witty? Should I be sexy? What if he doesn't respond?"
Don't trip! If you are feeling unsure about what you should text a guy, just follow these three simple rules!
Rule 1: Let Him Text You First
You might be excited and want to text a guy to let him know that you are thinking about him. This is a sweet thought but it can easily backfire. Especially if he is busy, a text, no matter how sweet, could feel more annoying than endearing. Men and woman are very different and the way that they text is no exception. Many women would love to receive a "Good Morning" text. Most men, however, wouldn't appreciate a text like that.
Rule 2: Use Texting For Logistics
Women can have full conversations through text messages. Men, however, tend to use texting primarily for logistics. What does that mean exactly? When men text, it is usually to set or confirm a date, time, or place. They prefer that things be quick, easy, and to the point. If you need to have a long conversation, a phone call would be a better option. Research shows that you cannot build an emotional connection through text messages. You can, however, build an emotional connection via phone conversations. So remember... Keep it short and sweet when texting your man. Any longer conversations should be on the phone or, better yet, in person.
Rule 3: If You Must Text First, Send A Photo of You Having Fun!
If you are in a committed, long term relationship, send your man a picture of you having a great time while out with your friends. Your man loves seeing you happy! It makes him feel good! You have built a life together and you are able to go out and have fun. He loves seeing that!
Texting fun photos is also a great idea when you are in a new relationship. If you just started dating and you are out having fun, send him a photo! He will be drawn to you and your happy life. By sending him this photo, you are showing him that you have a magnificent life and he can be part of it.
There you have it! Now you know how to text your man! Happy texting!
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- Crista Caruso
- Jul 25, 2018
- 2 min read
Knowing how your partner wants to be loved is very important. It can really improve your relationship and help you to truly connect. In "The Five Love Languages", Gary Chapman teaches us how to do just that!
So, what are "The Five Love Languages"? They are five different ways that people want to give and receive love.
1) Words of Affirmation
This language uses words to affirm your partner. Kind words and compliments make these people feel loved and appreciated.
2) Acts of Service
For these people, actions speak louder than words. Doing something nice, like cooking a meal for them or helping them to complete a task, makes these people feel loved and supported.
3) Receiving Gifts
For some people, what makes them feel most loved is to receive a gift. This does not mean that they are greedy or materialistic. When you give these people gifts, it shows them that you were thinking about them. They cherish not only the physical gift, but also the thought that they were on your mind.
4) Quality Time
This language is all about giving the other person your undivided attention. Spending one on one time with these people will make them feel special and happy. It shows them that they are important to you and you enjoy spending time with them.
5) Physical Touch
To this person, nothing speaks more deeply than touch. This touch is not necessarily sexual in nature. It is a touch that makes them feel safe and relaxed. Show them your love them by being affectionate and close to them. Hold their hand, rub their back, give them a hug... This makes them feel your love.
Identify which one of these love languages you and your partner gravitate toward. Men and women usually have one primary love language, as well as a secondary love language. You and your partner might have the same primary and secondary love languages or you might have completely different ones. That doesn't matter at all. Once you've figured out how you both feel loved, you can show each other love in a way that truly completes one another.
How can you identify your love languages? Just follow these steps:
1) Observe your way of expressing love.
2) Observe how your partner expresses love.
3) Listen to what your partner like and wants.
4) Observe what your partner dislikes.
There is also a tool called "The Five Love Languages Official Assessment" on the Five Love Languages website! It will help you discover your love language and being improving your relationships! Take the assessment HERE!
Check out the video below for more information:
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- Crista Caruso
- Jul 24, 2018
- 2 min read
When you figure out that the person that you are dating is your soulmate, it can feel like a total revelation. You suddenly just know, without a shadow of a doubt, that this person is meant for you. Doubts may arise later down the road and that is nothing to be concerned about. These doubts are completely normal and natural. Even if he perfect for you, it doesn't mean that everything is going to be perfect all of the time.
Men and women will often mistake other things, like physical attraction, for a genuine, true connection. Some couples might mistake comfort and easiness as true love, too. Feeling used to someone or not having to work hard at a relationship doesn't mean that it's the right relationship for you.
Whether you believe in love at first sight, true love, soulmates, or you just believe that two people can have amazing chemistry and compatibility, it isn't hard to see that two people can just be right for each other. When you find that kind connection that's when you find your soulmate.
It isn't going to be perfect every second of every day. Relationships, even the ones between two soulmates, are a lot of work. This discourages some couples who think that if they are meant to be together, things will always be happy and positive. Working together through the rough times will strengthen your bond and bring you closer together. If that person really is your soulmate, they will show you time and time again by being there through the good times and the bad times.
John Gray, the author of "Men Are from Mars, Women Are from Venus", delves deeper into this topic in the video below:
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