- Crista Caruso
Have you ever gotten a text from a guy but you just weren't sure how you should respond? Should it be short and sweet? Should you tell him how you feel about him? Should it be serious, sexy, upbeat, or funny? What on Earth should you say? Don't worry! I have some quick, easy, and helpful tips for you!
1) First of all, let him text you first. Most women enjoy having full conversations via text messages. Men usually stick to texting solely for logistics. That means that they prefer to use it to help them set up dates and times. A sweet text message asking him about his day might be more annoying than endearing. Plus, letting him text you first will make him feel like he is chasing you and men love that!
2) Mirror him. If he texts you a long paragraph, you respond with a long paragraph. If he writes you a short text, you respond with a short text. Let him take the lead and set the pace. Your mirroring him will make him feel comfortable and like you are on the same page.
3) If he texts you asking you out but you can't make it that day, text him another date and time that you are available. Remember to be specific! If you simply say that you would love to reschedule and he suggests another day that you aren't free, he will take that as 2 rejections and think that you aren't interested in him.
Keep these 3 tips in mind when texting your man. Now that you know how men like to text, you can make the most of your text messages together.
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Did you ever meet a woman who is simply irresistible? Maybe she isn't particularly physically attractive but men just seem to be drawn to her. What is it about her that is so captivating? It's the way she makes men feel! You can be irresistible, too! All you have to do is give your man what he really wants. He wants to feel needed, appreciated, and accepted.
A simple request is all that it takes to make a man feel needed. It can be anything from opening a jar for you to grabbing your jacket for you. Men love completing tasks and they love feeling helpful. If you have asked your man to help you with something and you have made him feel needed, you have accomplished step 1!
Ready for step 2? Make your man feel appreciated. Thank him and let him bask in the glory of knowing that he helped you and made you happy. You can even go a little over the top and pile it on thick with a lot of praises. He wants to make you happy and he will love seeing how one small task can really do the trick. A lot of men are worried that they can't make women happy, especially not for the rest of her life. That is why many men are afraid to commit. If you made your man feel appreciated and capable of making you happy, you can check step 2 off the list!
This takes us to the 3rd and final step... Make your man feel accepted. Don't try to change him. Love him for who he is. Take the good with the bad and embrace his quirks. Your unconditional love will make him feel comfortable and accepted. Step 3: Complete!
Doing these 3 things for your man will make you irresistible! It will also strengthen the bond between you and your man, take some things off of you plate, and, most importantly, make your man feel happy and loved.
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- Crista Caruso
It's late at night, or maybe it's the wee hours of the morning, and you get a text from a guy. Can you say, "BOOTY CALL"?
Dictionary.com defines a booty call as "a phone call, text message, email, etc., whose purpose is to arrange a meeting to have casual sex". If you are looking for a relationship instead of casual sex, there are a few different ways that you can respond. Let's say that you really like this guy but you want to get to know him on an emotional level before taking the next step. Steer clear of any short, negative answers that he can interpret as a rejection. If you want to text him back right away, you can tell him that you are tired and you are going to sleep but you would love to talk tomorrow to set up a date. If you want to wait until the morning to text him back, let him know that you are sorry that you missed his text and make plans to get together. Keep things positive and let him know that you are interested in getting closer. Set your sexual boundaries and let him know what you are looking for. If he is interested in more than just a sexual relationship, he will be more than happy to spend time with you and keep things moving according to these boundaries.
If he is only looking for a casual hookup and you aren't interested in that, don't feel pressured to do anything that you don't want to do. Different people want different things. Maybe he's in a stage of his life where he doesn't want any kind of commitment. Maybe, it's just the type of person that he is. Either way, if you aren't into it, don't do it. Keep looking for the right guy who is looking for a meaningful relationship.
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