- Mike Goldstein
- Mar 20, 2017
- 1 min read

I have spent over 10 year studying dating, specifically analyzing why men and women get together and most importantly stay together. I would notice couples getting together based on looks, similar interests, similar goals in life, and a multitude of other reasons. However, I soon realized that men and women only stay together when the following three things are present.
I also realized that when women make a man feel these three things, well she will be like a magnet and men in general will come running to be around this person.
Watch the video below to see me describe in detail these three qualities:
These are 3 qualities that men really want to feel from a women:
1. Needed
2. Appreciated
3. Accepted
- Mike Goldstein
- Mar 16, 2017
- 2 min read

Many of my clients are telling me they are only attracted to men that are non-committal. They describe this guy as charismatic, charming, well spoken, worldly, motivated, financially stable and so much more. The only drawback of course is that he is unwilling to commit to a monogamous relationship. Well, that is a HUGE problem when my clients are looking for a soul mate.
So since my clients want these men I needed to figure out how to deliver them to my clients. After lots of research and experimenting I figured out a way that works 97.5% of the time. I describe that method in this 3 minute youtube video: It Is Possible To Get Non-Committal Men
In case you would prefer to read instead of watch here is some more information.
First, a man is only non-committal until they find a woman to commit to. I spoke with hundreds of proclaimed "x-players" that are now happily married and 97.5% stated they had their fun until they found the one that was too valuable to discard.
Now, the common thread in all these men were their ladies made them wait at least 5 dates and typically until in a committed relationship until sleeping together.
I am going to re-iterate. If you want to land your dream guy, you must not sleep with him until commitment.
You and him need to get to know each other. Both parties need to get vested in each other. Vested means, truly like each other personalities, having similar values, and both parties seeing a future in each other.
Once all of this is accomplished, the non-committal guy will be ready to make a commitment because he has found someone special.
- Mike Goldstein
- Mar 13, 2017
- 1 min read

You have been dating the same guy for awhile. He has texted you daily, he has cooked you dinner, he has even had sex with you. But one day he disappears. He stops texting and calling.
Why did he do it?
Watch this video for the real answer that most dating coaches refuse to tell you.
In case, you can't do a video right now. Read Below:
It's time to tell you the truth. No one knows the specific reason "your guy" left. But, what I can tell you is something that can change your life. It certainly changed mine when I heard it for the first time.
"No one can you make you feel anything, you control how you feel." So if you are sad because your guy disappears, or you are depressed because it's winter and you haven't seen the sun in 5 months make the decision to feel happy.
What is the first step to accomplishing this?
Trick Your Brain.
Right Now, make a huge smile, try to be in a bad mood. You can't do it. You can't be in a bad mood with a huge smile on your face.
Second step, start changing your vocabulary. If someone asks, How are you?"
Say, "Amazing, phenomenal, I am having the best day of my life."
When you use these words, much like smiling for no reason, you will trick your brain. Pessimistic about my concept, try it for 21 days and report back. 21 days too long. Try it for one day. Let me know if it worked?
I can promise these little tricks will make your life a little sweeter.




