Online dating, bars, friends, religious groups, the gym. These are all good ways to meet men. However, there must be a great alternative option that gives you an immediate leg up. There is!
My idea is very easy. Find a meetup group, sport, or any activity people meet at that you are not particularly good at and start attending regularly.
Why are you doing this?
Men crave to feel needed by women in a world women RARELY need men.
So how do you accomplish this phenomenon?
Simple, join that Jui Jitsui class. Attempt to learn and when you struggle ask the good looking single guy if he can help you. (Men LOVE giving advice and teaching)
Once he teaches you something, perhaps you catch his eye and then you can get to know each other. If not, you can always try it on the next guy.
Now this idea may seem like a lot of work. Well, it is. So I would suggest picking an activity you would like to learn. Also, manage your expectations. Even if you don't meet a guy, you got your butt out of the house and did something you may have never done. Not to mention, if you stick with this activity, eventually you are going to get good at it. Once you are good at another activity, you are a more well rounded and interesting person.
If a guy gets a date with you via online dating and you tell him you can do jui jitsua, the right guy might be very interested and intrigued.
So basically, you are either getting a date or becoming more attractive to potential suitors. Sounds like a win/win situation.
Everyone can go use online dating and get a first date, but getting a high quality guy to commit to a relationship is a lot more challenging. Instead of teaching you online dating, I am going to give you the #1 thing you can do offline to not only meet men but give you a real good shot of keeping one forever.
As I have highlighted in many articles, men gravitate towards women who make them feel needed and appreciated. Thus, it is a lot easier to be irresistible to a man if you put yourself in a situation where is he is 100% needed. So how do you create this situation?
Attend a class where you will learn something and then either ask the instructor or cute class mate to help you. Possible classes could be yoga, computer programming class, jui jujitsu, dance class, and this list could go on forever.
Once you receive help, make sure you give huge amounts of appreciation. "Wow, thank you so much for your help, I never would have been able to do this without you."
Why is this method awesome?
1. You get to learn something
2. You meet someone organically - When you meet in real life, you can fully access attractions, social cues, and if it looks like conversation on a date would be fun and flow naturally.
3. Classes have multiple people in them, dates only have one person (If one guy doesn't cut the mustard, there is many options)
Alright ladies, go take some classes and allow men to help you. The help should be relaxing because all day at work you had to fend for yourself, but now in this class you are getting fully supported while the man feels needed and appreciated. Sounds like the perfect win/win situation.
I feel like every few months there is a new hot dating site. It is almost impossible to keep up. But today I am going to create a list of some of the major sites and apps. I am also going to tell you what each dating site is "known" for in as little words as possible. (This is mostly opinion, I do NOT have hard data on many of these dating sites so feel free to try all of them out and make your own judgments)
Tinder - hook up app
OkCupid - The Best Site When Pursuing People Based on Match%
Plenty of Fish - User are mostly of mid tier affluence
Coffee Meets Bagel - WASPY
Hinge - Introduced to 3rd connection friends on Facebook
Bumble - Girl must send 1st Message
Zoosk - Users are mostly of mid tier affluence
Happn - A lot of time spent, minimal actually dating
Pro Tip: eHarmony is meant for finding love. eHarmony is over populated by females. If you are a guy looking for love, you may want to check out eharmony because you will have less competition.
Which dating site is the best for finding love? (Using Data For This Answer)
Okcupid is the best. If you go on a date with someone with 90% or higher match percentage, 85% of the time you will have a good conversation with that person. You may not fall in love or have chemistry but you will have a good amount of similarities that lead to a good conversation. If you consistently go on dates where the conversation is good, you vastly increase your chances of finding love quickly. I have found that many of my clients only need to meet 6-8 people in order to find someone to be exclusive with.
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