3 Steps To Get Him Emotionally Attached
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For most women, the hardest part about their love life isn't meeting or establishing an attraction with men, but rather, it’s creating that deep connection and rush of strong emotions and powerful feelings that move things forward from casual dating towards a committed romantic relationships.
In this article I am going to teach you how to get a man emotionally attached in 3 steps. What I am going to teach you ABSOLUTELY WORKS. Before we hop in, I have a disclaimer.
There are 3 things that need to be present in order to get him attached
Both you and the man must be a good fit - Meaning if you like him and he doesn’t like you, this won’t work
You need to be self actualized - which means being happy and loving yourself. This leaves space for someone else to love you too.
You need to realize that most men you go on dates with are NOT the guy, but if you can be patient and consistently implement my 3 steps you will get a man emotionally attached.
Do those 3 things sound fair? Do you have these 3 things? If so, Keep reading, we are getting started NOW!
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Okay, How To Get Him Emotionally Attached
You need to Be Awesome on the Date
Well thanks Mike! Didn’t need a rocket scientist for that one.
Fair/Fair. Let me explain
I will break this into 3 main aspects.
1 - Be Fun/Playful
2- Be vulnerable
3 - Create emotional Safety for him
If you do all three of these, that is the trifecta and what we call the PERFECT DATE. In order to implement the perfect date let me give you some examples.
First, let's start with fun and playful.
I invited a woman to play soccer with me. She got there early, brought a jump rope and was basically bouncing around like an energizer bunny. Soon after chatting, she said,
“Can you do a cartwheel?”
I replied, “I am 220 LBS, that’s a big texas size NO”
She is like cool, “Watch me”
She does one. Then she goes, “Want to learn?”
“I said sure.” - Now for the next 25 minutes we were playing/laughing watching my big butt fall all over the place. We were having fun, getting to know each other organically instead of interviewing each other.
I know this is an obscure example, but I challenge you to think how you can make your dates playful instead of interviews?
Even if you end up at a bar, maybe challenge them to name all of the 7 dwarves. If you got some cool ideas, please leave them in the comments so Team EZ Dating can try them.
Next step, be vulnerable.
Oh man is vulnerability sexy. I was on a date and this woman felt comfortable enough to tell me she lost her father last year to cancer.
This lead me to ask, “how she handled that?” “how was her relationship with her father?” “what did she miss most about him?” - This allowed me to bond with her and really get to know her on a much more intimate level.
This conversation was a lot more emotionally connecting then “What do you do for work? Do you enjoy it?”
Finally, if you can create emotional safety for a man, you hit the trifecta and nailed a perfect date.
I was on a date with this really nice, intelligent, easy to talk to, successful woman who seemed to have many of the qualities I look for in a partner. I was mostly PC on t