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Is Sex On The Third Date The New Standard?  I am NOT Ready!  What Should I do?

Date 1: Drinks

Date 2: Drinks, maybe dinner out

Date 3: He Invites you to his house for a "home cooked" meal

"Netflix and chill", inviting you over for a cooked dinner, this is all code for "I want to have sex with you".

If you are not ready to have sex yet, what are you supposed to do?

I would suggest saying the following when he invites you over for dinner. "Thanks for the amazing offer, that sounds delicious and I definitely want to do that in the future. But for now, I would rather meet in a public place and keep getting to know each other."

Why is this message phenomenal?

1. "Thanks for the amazing offer" - Shows your man appreciation for his actions

2. "I definitely want to do that in the future" - You are not shooting him down, you are just pushing back when this date will happen