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How To Build Your Online Dating Profile the Right Way


The best resume gets the job interview. Online dating is no different. The best profile gets the date.

There are a couple key differentiators between the 95% of online profiles, which are not getting optimal results, and the 5% that get 10 to 20 times more communication.

Here’s how you can optimize your online profile:

1. BE SPECIFIC!

2. Don’t talk about previous relationships

3. Be positive

4. Be honest

I highlighted Be Specific because that is the moneymaker. When men look at a profile they want something to send a message about. If you write, “I have a yellow lab named Clover who I walk in central park every morning,” you’re doing two things:

1. You’re telling them something specific about yourself they can relate to