What Makes A Man Addicted To You And Want To Commit
What Makes A Man Addicted To You And Want To Commit
A man is ONLY going to commit to you and be addicted to you if he feels like you are special, you are one of a kind, like no other woman he has ever met.
Because why would he commit to someone who is alright, fine, kinda fun. Would you commit to a man who was just alright? Of course not! So men do the same thing.
In this video, we are going to teach you some skills that 99% of other women simply don’t have and probably don’t even know about.
Now, these skills are very EZ concepts but may take you a while to get good at executing. So, be patient with yourself and take your time adding this to your arsenal.
Today you take the first step in learning skills men find rare, special, and nearly impossible to be duplicated and thus inspire high quality men to commit to you and only you.
To make him addicted I broke this into 4 concepts and an EZ acronym to remember.
The acronym is NAAB.
The first concept is to make him feel needed. For the first time in human history men are having a massive identity crisis. Men are no longer fully needed as the provider and protector. Women can provide for themselves.
Men used to be the only person in the work force. The male “thing” was making money for the family. He was the breadwinner.
Now, women are in the workforce, in many cases making more money than the man which leaves the man confused as to what his new place is?
But, you are here to build your man up and provide him with direction. You realize, that a man without PURPOSE is a sad sight and frankly is like a lost puppy without a home.
Instead, you will make him feel needed. It can start even on date 1 on a coffee date by simply asking him, “I forgot to grab sugar for my coffee, would you mind grabbing me some sugar?”
After he gets you sugar, simply say “Thank you. You are such a gentleman.”
Many of you may be thinking, Mike, you are crazy, I can get my own sugar. You are 100% right, you can. But, why would you get up when you have an opportunity to give your man purpose and give him what he is craving, the 2nd A in NAAB, APPRECIATION!
As a woman, have you ever tied your happiness to how your relationship was doing? Although, not healthy, I think it sometimes happens. Well men, also not healthy, a lot of the time judge their level of life success by how happy their woman is.
So if you are happy and then give him appreciation or thanks for that level of happiness he feels like a huge success. Does that make sense? Let me know in the comments if you will allow your guy to get you some sugar for your coffee?
Next, let’s move onto the 2nd A, in NAAB. Accepted.
Have you ever had a guy ask you to change something about yourself? If that did happen to you, how did it make you feel?
I am sure it felt horrible. Perhaps at the time it made you question if something was wrong with you?
Well, first off. No! There is nothing wrong with you. You are perfect the way you are. If the guy doesn’t like you the way you are, he needs to kick rocks.
Just like you don’t want to be asked to change, neither does he. And guess what, all his past gfs didn’t like something about him and either asked him to change or silently made him feel like he should change.
Let me show you an example of how a woman can accept a man. When I was living with my last partner I used to lay on the couch and pass gas basically non-stop. Instead of calling me gross (which it was) she would either laugh and make a fun joke with me or simply ignore it.
Why did she do this?
She did this because I treated her like gold and she loved and accepted 95% of who I was and this was that one thing she just had to let slide so that she could have access to the rest of me.
In order for my partner to get all of me, she had to accept all of me, even the worst parts. Because she was able to do this, it made me fully trust her and accept her for who she was.
Finally, let’s look at the B in NAAB. B is for boundaries. Most women are terrified to tell a man her boundaries. She thinks she is nagging at a man.
Instead of nagging, how about we give a man a roadmap to your happiness?
Why is he is going to like this? Remember earlier I said men sometimes evaluate how there life is doing by how happy their woman is?
Well, that is why he doesn’t know it but he needs a roadmap. No men is a mind reader and no men is going to know what you want and need all the time.
Now, I know some of you, MOST OF you want a man to just do all the things you want and think if he doesn’t do them maybe he doesn’t care about you.
Trust me, that is not a test that will give you an answer as to whether he wants your or not.
Instead, tell him, “Jon, you are so amazing. I love our relationship. It would feel amazing if you would plan a great date for us.”
Using this approach you will determine if he is addicted to you. If he takes you on a date, that is a great sign, if he refuses to take you on a date after wording it so nicely, then he failed the test.
In this case you gave him an open book test, instead of a difficult pop quiz that he was likely going to fail.
Ladies, how does it feel tobe able to NAAB a man. Do you feel superpowers flowing through your veins? Because, you got them now. You are super woman. So take your time, get yourself used to these new super powers but be prepared for men to go CRAZY for you and want to COMMIT FOREVER.