How to Fall in Love
In the video above, EZ Dating Coach, Mike Goldstein, tells us a personal story about perseverance and how this trait can relate to your love life. He tells us to never give up in our quest for love because when it comes to finding it, there is a lid for every pot. It doesn’t matter what you look like or how much money you have or what obstacles you have to overcome…there is a special person out there that will love you just the way you are.
Mike’s story begins with a new job selling refinanced mortgages at HSBC. Just out of college, he was excited and confident and ready to sell, sell, sell. He was taken back when he didn’t make any sales his first month on the job. Month 2 rolled around and he still didn’t have any luck. Before he knew it, 5 months had passed without making any sales. The district manager told him that they were going to send him to a different branch but before he made the switch, the manager convinced him to keep him at that location. Mike was determined to make a sale and worked harder than ever before. He made a sale in his seventh month on the job but it was just shy of their goal. He could have felt defeated and given up right then and there but he kept at it. The next month, Mike not only met the goal… he crushed it! He earned almost 4 times the goal amount and he was in the top 20 salespeople in the country that month!
Mike succeeded because he refused to be brought down by self-doubt. Not only did he have an unlucky few months, Mike also had zero sales experience when he started. So how did he do it? He learned all that he could by listening to one of the top salespeople in the country. By spending time with her and asking her questions, Mike learned the skills that he would need to succeed at his job. He took all that he learned from her and made it his own and people gravitated toward him. That knowledge combined with his determination helped him to succeed.
These principles can completely apply to your love life! Love is just like anything else in life that is worth having. You have to educate yourself about it and work hard for it. When you want to graduate from school, you listen to your teachers, study hard, and take the tests. When you want a promotion at work, you ask your boss what you have to do to get promoted and you put in the time and effort. When you want to excel at a sport, you learn the rules of the game and you practice and train and push yourself to the limit. It’s all about educating yourself and working hard. The same goes for love! The first step is learning about how you can make yourself the best that you can be. Next, you have to think about what strategy you can put out there that will make men see how great it will be to date you. You also need to do what you can to try to understand men better. This will help you to communicate and connect with them.