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How To Find The Right Guy, Get Him To Commit, and Be In a Healthy Happy Relationship

After following Love Breakthrough Specialists, Johnny and Lara Fernandez, for years, EZ Dating Coach, Mike, was ecstatic when he got the chance to sit down and talk with them. He learned a lot in their Q&A session and he was super excited to pass the knowledge along to you! Here is a paraphrased summary of their insightful discussion:

Q) How can you can tell if your guy is the right guy for you?

A) There are several ways to tell if you're dating Mr. Right:

  1. He doesn't disappear on you. He is present and interested in creating a meaningful relationship with a future. Keep in mind, disappearing is different from seeking alone time. We're talking about completely ghosting you, here!

  2. He does what he says he's going to do. When he makes plans and he says that he is going to do something, he always follows through.

  3. You values are in alignment. It is clear that you both want and cherish the same things.

  4. He treats people with respect. He isn't just kind to people that he can get something from, he is kind to everyone.

  5. You realize that he isn't perfect, just like you aren't perfect, but he is perfect for you. Everyone has quirks and everyone makes mistakes now and then. You accept each other and love each other unconditionally, no matter what.

Q) How can you tell the difference between a man disappearing and a man just needing some alone time?

A) There is a big difference between a man disappearing without a trace and a man needing time alone. Men need to have alone time t