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You Won't Believe These Are the 3 Attributes You Need to Be the Queen of Confidence

According to scientific studies confidence is the #1 most attractive quality in the opposite sex. Now how does this apply to you? No matter how great a person you are, if you can't build chemistry with a person most daters these days are not going to give you enough dates to find out. Thus, showing confidence which will create chemistry is pertinent in the early stages of relationship.

What is the easiest way to show confidence?

Simple, hold eye contact, ask questions and be "interested, not interesting."

Eye Contact

Eye contact is the building blocks of confidence. Next time you are walking around Manhattan I want you to lock eyes with everyone you walk past. If they look away first, how do you feel? If you look away first how do you feel?

Most people will feel confident when the other person looks away. Now if you play this game long enough, no matter how well you train yourself when you finally see someone very attractive, there is a strong chance you will look away when he/she makes eye contact with you. If you are anything like me, you will be kicking yourself internally and be like, "Grrr, I can't believe I looked away!"

Take Away - Try playing this game often. The more you practice holding eye contact, the more muscle memory you can build at locking eyes and feeling confident while doing so. Then, next time you are having a candle lit dinner, you will have the confidence to hold eye contact, with zero words, and watch your man squirm because he can't believe how lucky he is to be at dinner with someone so sexy and confident!