Are you in a relationship with a man who just won’t commit to you? These types of relationships aren’t all bad if you are looking for a short-term thing but if you are looking for a long and lasting relationship, it’s time to move on. Your short-term goals are being met but your long-term goal of wanting a life partner isn’t. You’re probably shaking your head in agreement but there is still something holding you back. This is a very common problem. The short-term success, happiness, and satisfaction that you get from a non-committal man is why women stay in relationships with them even though it doesn’t feel right.
You have to tell yourself that your long-term goal is way more important to you and you have to take steps toward making it a reality. The first step is thinking about why this goal is so important to you. You want to be able to trust your man…You want to live together…You want to feel their unconditional love and support…You want to grow old together…Notice how much this list outweighs the list of reasons to stay with someone who just can’t give you these things. This will help you to move on and it will also help to reaffirm that you are on the right path if you ever think of rekindling things with him later on down the road.
A few years back, my friend was seeing a guy who did not want a commitment. Whenever they weren’t together, she was worried that he was with another girl. When they had discussions about not seeing other people, he was so against it that it made her feel really bad about herself. She felt like she wasn’t good enough. She thought that if she was worth it, he would see what a catch she is and he wouldn’t want to see anyone else. The truth is, it had nothing to do with her. This guy was just at a place in his life where he didn’t want a commitment. This is true for many single guys. They might want to settle down someday but not anytime soon. Other men enjoy this lifestyle and don’t ever want a commitment. Either way, these types of men just aren’t the one for you. My friend realized this and told the guy that she was looking for a long-term, committed relationship and they parted ways as friends. If your wants, needs, and goals aren’t in alignment, it’s not a bad thing. It just means that you aren’t meant to be together.
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