You have probably heard about how confidence is the number one hottest quality that draws a man to a woman...but what about after that initial attraction? What quality does a man who is looking for a long and lasting relationship find hot? Believe it or not, it's boundaries. A woman with boundaries shows a man that she is confident and respects herself. It also shows him exactly what he needs to do to make her happy.
A lot of women are afraid to set their boundaries for fear that it will come off as naggy and needy. Telling your man what you want and what you need is not just important for your happiness, it is important for your man's happiness, too. You are giving him a road map to your heart and taking away the fear and anxiety that he has regarding his ability to make you happy. Many men are intimidated by the fear that they won't be able to make a woman happy forever. That is why they have trouble committing to a relationship.
Be open with your man and tell him what you need. You can tell him how happy it would make you if you spent more time together or if you went on more dates together. You can let him know how much it would mean to you if he called you more often. If he does something or says something that bothers you, you should let him know. Getting those feelings off of your chest will also ensure that you don't bottle them up. This is healthier for you and it can also help prevent an argument down then line.
Men think that it is so sexy when a woman can be upfront and communicate exactly what she needs. By doing so, you are taking care of yourself, helping him understand what you need, and setting your relationship on a path to success. If you need something, ask for it. If you aren't happy with something, tell him. He will love that you are telling him what you need and you will love that you are getting what you need. Everybody wins!
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