Flirting can take 2 strangers and set them on the path to becoming a happy couple. EZ Dating Coach, Mike, gets asked about the best flirting techniques all the time! Here are some tips to help you turn your attraction into a relationship:
1) Wave him over
Let's say that you spot a man that you are interested in... Give him a smile and wave him over. Some of you might be thinking that this is a little too aggressive. That's the point! A lot of men are afraid to make a move because they don't want to face rejection. Your waving them over will help to alleviate that anxiety, giving them the confidence that they need to come over. He knows that you are interested in him so he won't be afraid to make a move and he is the one who is walking over to you, making him feel like he is picking you up. This is also a booster for you as you are taking a hold of your love life and not just waiting for love to find you.
2) Give him great eye contact
Giving someone great eye contact makes them feel important. You are showing them that they have your undivided attention. You are making them feel interesting and, more importantly, you are making them feel heard.
3) Speak slowly and confidently
The number 1 most attractive quality in initial attraction is confidence. Let him know who you are and be proud to tell him about yourself. He will want to learn more about you and really get to know you.
4) Be playful
This can be anything from having a sexually charged look to leaning in and touching his arm. This playfulness is sexy and intriguing and it will show him that you are definitely interested in him. This will make him feel more confident in asking you out and taking things to the next level.
When you follow these tips, you are initiating a conversation by eliminating any fear of rejection. Next, you are showing him that you are truly interested in him. This makes him feel good about himself and it continues to show him that he doesn't have to be afraid that you are going to turn him down. Lastly, by being confident and playful, you are not only turning him on, you are solidifying that fact that there is a sexual attraction between the 2 of you. Now that he sees that you are interested in him and the sparks are flying, he will want to take things to the next level. Give these tips a try! They work every time!
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