Everyone wants to find love and it is frustrating when you go on a bunch of dates but you can't seem to find someone that you truly connect with. You don't have to go to the bar every night, hoping that you'll find him. You don't have to go on awful dates with men who just are not what you're looking for. You can find a quality man who is right for you!
So, where do you find this quality man? The first step is not a matter of the right place or the right time. It is finding the clarity inside of yourself. You have to figure out what is important to you and not let any decisions be rushed and forced from a needy or desperate place. Don't look for a soul mate. Look for someone who you will have fun with. You want to create a series of positive dating experiences. This provides the nourishment that you need to help you be patient when finding the right guy.
Once you take the time to figure out what you need, you can figure out what qualities are important to you. This can be anything from financial stability to personality traits and interests. You want to have things in common but it is the differences that creates the magnetism. Similar interest are great because you can enjoy doing things together but having different interests is important, too. You can share these interests with each other, introducing new and interesting things to one another. You can also do these activities separately, giving each other a little healthy space. Plus you know what they say... Opposites attract!
The thing that initially draws a lot of women to their perspective partner is looks. Keep in mind that you don't have to be physically attracted to a man right away. The attraction can grow over time. In fact, welcoming the attention of someone that you aren't necessarily attracted to and letting him pursue you puts you in "The Safety Zone". He wants you more than you want him, he earns his way to your heart, and then you attach to him and you want him.
One of EZ Dating Coach, Mike's, clients came to him because she was sick of going on bad date after bad date. She was only dating men that she was physically attracted to and she was feeling like a failure when none of these relationships made it past the first or second date. All of her friends were getting married and she was feeling lonely and depressed. She told Mike that she could not take one more night of the bar scene. He helped her to take a step back and not put so much pressure on everything. He suggested that she put herself in new and interesting places and situations. She decided to join a running group. She met a man that seemed kind and compassionate and who enjoyed being in nature, 3 qualities that were really important to her. Men love to help and teach you things! New to running, my friend reached out to the man for advice and they really hit it off. They've been happily dating ever since and they just bought a house together!
The most important thing to remember is that you have to follow your heart and your intuition. Don't put pressure on yourself and don't try to change yourself to fit the mold of what you think they perfect guy is looking for. Be yourself. Be confident and brave. Try new things. Venture outside of your comfort zone. You will find a quality guy and he will be the perfect guy for you!
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